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Stephen Graf Jones Obituary

Graduation Year Class of 1966
Date of Passing Apr 25, 2018
About Stephen Graf Jones
October 17, 1947 - April 24, 2018
JONES, Stephen G., DMA
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Dr. Stephen G. Jones, 70, passed away Wednesday, April 25, 2018. He was born October
17, 1947 to the late James A. “Lone” and Freeda I. (Graf) Jones. Steve was united in
marriage to Linda L. Patterson on May 30, 1992 and was so very proud of his son Peter.
Steve was an internationally renowned professional trumpet player. Professor of Music
Emeritus at Western Michigan University, Steve taught for 42 years and served as a
member of the Western Brass Quintet. Steve had a profound influence on the School of
Music. As a teacher, he has left a legacy of excellence with his students finding
professional success as university teachers and orchestral musicians. As a performer, he
helped bring the Western Brass Quintet to international prominence. And his meticulous
work as a member of numerous committees has helped shape important policy for the
school. Upon his retirement he stayed active professionally, performing with the West
Michigan Brassworks and as a soloist, teaching students, arranging music, and practicing
for at least two hours each day. He was a lifetime member and two-term past President of
the International Trumpet Guild. He felt privileged to be able to perform with colleagues
and friends throughout the world.
Steve felt blessed to be able to do something his entire life that he loved. He was so very
proud of his colleagues and his students and all their accomplishments. He was a
gregarious person, who enjoyed getting together with friends and family, telling stories and
jokes (sometimes questionable ones), performing magic tricks, and sharing a meal or a
brew. And he loved watching Peter grow into the man he is today.
Steve is survived by his wife, Linda; son, Peter; brother, Tim; an aunt, uncle, and several
nieces, nephews and cousins. Steve was preceded in death by his parents and a brother,
Eric Lone Jones. A memorial service will take place on Saturday, May 19, at 2 pm at
Trinity Evangelical Lutheran Church, 504 S. Westnedge Ave., Kalamazoo, MI 49007.
Arrangements by Langeland Family Funeral Homes, Westside Chapel, 3926 S. 9th St. In
lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to Trinity Lutheran Church or the Western
Michigan University School of Music c/o WMU Foundation, 1903 W Michigan Ave,
Kalamazoo, MI 49008. Please visit Steve’s personalized webpage at www.langelands.com
Comments
Dear Linda and Peter -
Our deepest sympathy o n the loss of Steve/your father. What a shocking loss!
Please know our prayers for comfort and peace are with you.
We hope to see you at the service -
Judy Markusse Paget and David Ma nn
Judy Markusse Paget - 23 hours ago
The last time I heard Steve play was at Bob Luscombe's memorial service. He
brought a touch of the Beatific Vision to what was otherwise a very sad day. John
Link
John Link - May 01 at 11:35 PM
There are so many musical memories with Stephen Jones while he was the
instructor for my freshman brass quintet. The four members of this ensemble and me
performed at numerous churches, schools and other venues. Steve was fun and
knowledgeable of all things trumpet. He was a consummate performer and teacher
who had multiple trumpet lead pipes, slides, valves, oils, corks, mutes and every
other accessory known in the trumpet free world. His office was a virtual trumpet
repair shop. This was in the 70's before he had attained his doctorate.
My junior year, I took private lessons from Stephen as he guided me through a
grueling embouchure change. This was an arduous challenge for me as I was
grinding through this change while still performing in other musical ensembles at the
university. I will never forget a non-musical event one day during a private lesson. My
lips were especially tired from playing long tones and other exercises designed by
Steve to strengthen my new embouchure setup. We began talking about food while I
rested my lips from the grueling practice. Conversation drifted to McDonalds and Big
Mac hamburgers. Stephen suddenly busted out with the phrase "Two all beef patties,
special sauce, lettuce, cheese, pickles, onions on a sesame seed bun." We both
laughed AND Laughed and laughed and laughed!! ! Then it was back to practice.
Stephen Jones had the best sense of humor. We spoke numerous times over the
years since my graduation. He sent me trumpet mutes and countless other stuff. I
loved this guy.
Rest in Peace and teach Gabriel some Clark Technical Studies while you're up in
heaven.
Anthony



Anthony Womack - April 30 at 10:25 PM
One of my favorite memories with Stephen was when my son started studying with
him in the summer of 7th grade, Richard was playing his trumpet, and Stephen sat in
his chair reading the paper. My son asked if he was going to listen. Stephen
replied..."When you start playing, I'll start listening." I laughed, but it was just what
Rich needed. Rich and Stephen were not just student and teacher/mentor, they
became friends and fellow musicians, and played together in orchestras several
times. He was one of the teachers who prepared him for Boston and Tanglewood.
We always enjoyed Stephens jocularity before a concert. The music world has lost a
wonderful talent. Stephen will be greatly missed! Ed & Natalie Neckermann
Natalie Neckermann - April 30 at 07:16 PM
A favorite memory of Steve is him coming to our home when our boys were young.
He wanted to entertain the boys and show them his trumpet. Well, he brought an
array of trumpets, including a tiny one that we all remember to this day. Steve played
& explained each one and had great fun doing so. Steve gave of himself freely and
with joy, always. His smile was his trademark. Steve loved life. His passion for living
and for music enriched countless lives and will be remembered with joy. - Jim & Jane
Bauschke
Jim & Jane Bauschke - April 30 at 03:39 PM
What I remember most about Steve is how much of himself he put into everything he
did (and I mean everything). His tremendous intelligence, musical mind, performing
abilities and trumpet studio teaching/coaching are the most obvious, but he was just
as gifted and dedicated in teaching academic courses and as a committee
chair/committee member/colleague/mentor/friend. He was always enthusiastically
meticulous--even insisting on the perfect wording and punctuation of every faculty
evaluation letter, just to make sure they were completely accurate and clear. All this
was rounded off with a warm heart and a fabulous sense of humor. Steve was
always "Steve"--no matter where or what the circumstances--and we loved and
respected him for it. What boggles my mind is that I only saw the LAST half of his 42
years at WMU. Absolutely incredible. What a loss...but how wonderful to have
crossed life paths with him.
- Dan Jacobson
Dan Jacobson - April 30 at 02:35 PM



From Aunt Jean: I loved Steve from the day he was born at White Cross Hospital in
Columbus, Ohio. He was the first grandchild in our family. I got to help choose his
name. He was more like a brother to my children than a cousin. Our families spent
most holidays together. We celebrated his accomplishments in music and
academically. When Peter was born, my sister was overjoyed with a long desired
grandchild. We made many trips to Michigan to play with the baby. (Not enough for
Freeda, I'm sure) Thank you Linda and Peter for making our lives enriched. We will
all miss Steve very much. I wish you both blessings as we go forward with out Steve.
Jean Graf Windesheim
Jean Windesheim - April 30 at 12:40 PM
Western Michigan University has lost one of its finest musicians. Steve's
performances were riveting and his ability to teach others was consistently lauded as
outstanding. I recall fondly Steve's (and Scott's) performances at my inauguration
and other WMU events. Dr. Jones will be missed, but his contributions to the School
of Music and WMU will be everlasting. John M. Dunn, President Emeritus
John M. Dunn - April 30 at 11:24 AM
I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have studied trumpet under Dr. Jones in high
school. He also led the trumpet section and coached the brass quintet at the Seminar
high-school music camp at WMU, which I attended one summer. At first, I remember
being really intimidated during his lessons in his studio, because Dr. Jones
demanded a high degree of precision, and the exercises we went through were quite
rigorous and technical. I had to practice a ton in order to feel prepared for these
lessons, and often times would get discouraged for not playing up to his level of
expectation.
However, one of the many enjoyable memories from these lessons was when we
would play duets together near the end, and all the technical groundwork he laid out
would suddenly pay off handsomely as we played music together. I was always
wowed to hear him play and to witness his great dexterity on the horn, things I have
always tried hard to emulate. I soon realized that Dr. Jones genuinely cared about
my growth as a musician, and he truly did help me grow, not just into a better trumpet
player, but as a better person in general.
These lessons were an integral learning experience in my life, and they taught me
much about the importance of diligent practice and discipline, which has carried over
into many other areas of my life, not just the trumpet. He was certainly a great
inspiration to me and will be dearly missed. Thank you for having such a positive
impact on me, Dr. Jones. May you rest in peace.



Kyle Herrity - April 30 at 11:00 AM
I sincerely want to thank Dr. Jones for his impact on my life. He instilled excellence
and detail in my life that has carried over many times. He was bigger than life to me.
And, he was always proud of my accomplishments. I'll never forget that about him. I
wish the family to know what a great man he was, to me and the the rest of the music
world. His music went beyond trumpet playing, and genuinely investigated all kinds
of music for the sake of his students. His teaching, playing, lecturing and service will
be remembered by all of us who knew him. May God Bless Stephen Jones......a life
well lived! Dr. Jones...I'll miss you always and forever. Your impact on my life was
such a positive one. Thank you.
Rick Holland - April 29 at 10:49 PM
Thank you for sharing life-enhancing skills with young students. I will always
remember how my daughter talked about learning to use a calendar to schedule
future meetings with you and the rest of the Quintet. It seemed to me that you were
one of them and their time was just as valuable as your time. Rest in peace Dr.
Jones you have made the world a better place.
Joe - April 29 at 12:14 PM
Thank you Steve for your gift of Music. You will be missed very much by your Church
Family. Jim Harding
Jim Harding - April 29 at 08:34 AM
My first memory of Steve was as a student at Muskegon HS in the early to mid-
1970s. Steve and Donald Bullock came to Muskegon to perform with my HS band.
Then when I moved to Muskegon in 1985, Pastor William Diehl sent Steve to my
apartment to connect with me. I enjoyed getting to know Steve. This is a great loss.
My deepest sympathy to all who knew and loved him.
Nate Mattson - April 29 at 05:58 AM
I knew Steve from grade school up, and we had many classes together. We became
good friends and "partners in crime" in H.S., when home rooms, seating in the
auditorium and many classes were alphabetized. So, Sue Jones was always right
beside or right behind Steve Jones. :-) I forged several permission slips for him with





his Mom's name when he forgot to have her do it. We shared some fun times at
Operetta practices for the Acapella choir also, and just sharing chit chat in general on
many occasions. It was so nice reconnecting with him several years ago on
Facebook. He had often mentioned how happy he was with his life. We're all sorry
that it was cut short. Extending sympathies to all his family. Sue Jones Oehrtman
Sue Oehrtman - April 28 at 11:29 PM
We have known Steve for over 40 years and are saddened beyond words at his
sudden passing! We celebrated his marriage to Linda and the birth of his son, Peter
and scores of truly wonderful musical events together! The world has lost an
exceptional musician, husband, father and friend! We are heartbroken at his loss!
Joanne and Bill Musselman
Joanne Musselman - April 28 at 09:10 PM
Just seeing Steve's joy and enthusiasm for music is motivating for all of us. I so
appreciated his bringing the West Michigan Brassworks to perform as part of the
worship service at Trinity Lutheran. I was blessed to have known him. God bless.
Don Anderson
Don Anderson - April 28 at 08:14 PM

Stephen Graf Jones